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Home Decoration problem with my husband!!?

Under Family Category: Home Decoration

Hi. my father is the unequivocally good male though when it comes to decorating the home or becoming different decoration, he is annoying!
every time i buy the square of furniture, when we wish to name the dilemma for it, he creates me cry! Today we only paid for the piano as well as when i altered all the emblem as well as found the befitting place for it, he proposed to have me cry. he altered the place of all as well as when i told him " Ok, the up to you, we do it yourself" he left all with the disaster he had done as well as pronounced " we do not feel similar to you do it tonight" as well as left the room! we pronounced ok afterwards i will do it, he pronounced "you do it as well as i will shift it" right away my home is the mess!!! what should i do im so indignant as well as insane during him right now! he doesn’t let me chose i flowering plant i wish in my residence :(


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It sounds like the best solution is to sit down with your husband and and let him know how upset you are getting about your decorating differences. I would be very careful not to accuse him or yell (he’ll shut down and not listen) but just let him know how you feel about it i.e. " I get so upset and sad when you re-arrange furniture I’ve just arranged in the room" "it really hurts my feelings and makes me feel like…." Maybe a compromise is in order…each agree to have say in decorating a particular room or work together until you’re both ok with outcome. It’s important to really try and listen to each others point of view.

Good luck.

Michelle wrote on January 8, 2010 - 1:25 am | Visit Link

Keep the piano and get rid of him! No, just kidding. Try having him draw out a plan for where everything should go, you can get a grid and cut outs of furniture ( measured to scale) move them around so you can both agree on how and where everything should go. He’s probably left everything in a mess because he doesn’t know where to put it, but wants to be in on the decision making. I would also tell him that normally the woman makes the final decision on the placement of the furniture, but you welcome his input. With the holidays coming, things will be moved for the tree and other decorations anyway; but, he shouldn’t make you cry. I’m sorry that he did that. Hope this helps!

Debby wrote on January 8, 2010 - 1:25 am | Visit Link

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