When the parents fight, Mom yells, Dad drinks, blame faults on each others, then what would the child learn ? When parents fight, Mother discharge things and Father begs sorry to Mom, the child will learn that being aggressive is the only way to defend. Everytime her parents brawl, Father talks bad about Mother, the child will learn that to defend yourself from people is to spread others’ fault. Everytime parents fight, Mother escapes from home, the child will learn to run away from problems, not to solve the problem. It’s not just about parents when they fight, it’s either about a lesson for the child, because parents handle the performance of empowering their child’s manners.

Then now, how to assist the broken home to survive ?
1. First thing first, we have to convince ourselves as a right assistant. Provide the broken homes with unconditional love, keep her mood on tracks. It might be not easy but it surely worth trying at last.
2. Search inside herself, alter the old belief to a new thoughts about love and relationships. Everyone deserves to be happy. Even a problem itself has seeds to an ultimate happiness.
3. Deal with the pain and the anger. There is no way to forget and erase the pain, but what we actually can do is try to cope with the feelings. Set the thoughts and the feelings free. Make the angers and the pain as the provocation to build a happy future. Forgiving is the key.
4. Uttermost, just be grateful of whatever we have in life now. We have a reason to make a better live, whether it is broken home, or not.

Last words for parents, running an unhealthy relationships will also give the children unhealthy environment to grow, and we should realize that what we do is affecting our child. The way we talk, the way we fight, the way we handle disagreement will influence the children and the adults they’ll become.

In the 1970’s, the ‘Tongky’ doll was popular among children and it was replaced by Ria Enes with her ‘Susan’ doll and Kak Seto with his ‘siKomo’ doll and and his other friends in the 1990s. After 2000, there was no more idol character for children in Indonesia . There were only programs addressed for adults. Now children have no choices. They are forced to watch adult programs which contain inappropriate materials for them like aggressive behaviors, abusive substances, sexual activities, and even bad languages. Meanwhile, television has a potential contribution to children’s behavior.

Children can learn negative things as well as positive things from TV. Violent television programs contribute to aggressive behaviors among children. For example, the ‘Smackdown’ show a few years ago. Children tried to practice the movements they saw from the wrestlers in the show. As a result, there were victims at home after the shows on TV. Therefore, a good program for children should be prepared, planned and nurtured by some consultants. According to Seto Mulyadi, children are the best imitators in the world. If they watch adult materials, their psychosexual developments will be damaged, and it may affect their sexual behaviors in the future. Regarding to this problem, parents have to stay with their children when they are watching TV so that they can choose appropriate programs for their children.
The chosen programs should be beneficial for children, such as the ‘Blue’s Clues’ program that is designed for children to solve their problems because in this program an animated dog named ‘Blue’ with his human friend, Steve, encourage viewers, particularly children to solve games and puzzles. Another example is the ‘Dora the Explorer’ program. In this show, children can imitate the Spanish words that are said by ‘Dora’. Actually, there are some famous programs that are addressed for children like ‘Naruto’, and ‘Idola Cilik’. Unfortunately, those programs seem unable to fulfill the criteria as ideal programs for children. For example, ‘Idola Cilik’ program is meant for children but the songs provided there are generally the songs for adults containing love themes, meanwhile, ‘Naruto’ is a cartoon program originated from Japan that contains violence.

The conclusion is that television does affect the children’s morality and language developments. To protect children from the bad effects of TV, parents have to monitor their children when they are watching TV and the writer also recommends the TV program makers to hire a team which consists of educators, psychologists, and also experts in religion. This team will monitor the processes of TV program making. The team will also collaborate with the Indonesian broadcasting commission “Komisi Penyiaran Indonesia ” (KPI) to decide whether one program is appropriate or not to broadcast in Indonesia.

Children’s world always full with color. For children who just start to discover all the things around them, they just enjoy and try many things. They usually love to try and explore new things. The problem comes when they try something new. They do not care what will come next and the cause of what they have done. So even though what they’ve done invite risk, they will not stop until it hurts them. That’s the time when they learn about something. In their world, they also can get whatever they want. It is their nature besides how can we resist the cute face when they’re asking something to us. That is why their world full with color because they experience many things.

One of the most important things in children’s world is playing. Playing in their world is the thing that can not be taken or erased from them because through playing they can be very happy. For children, to make them easier to learn or introduce something new it is better we teach them by playing. It is also at this time, children enjoy their time very much. If they enjoy then they can be very happy and give us the look that we can not forget. Can u imagine the way they smile at us? It will be the best thing.
To sum up, children’s world always full with color because they experience many kind of things at this age. This is the first time for them to find out so many things in this world, Moreover, the most important thing to help them to learn about so many things is thorough playing process. We play and teach them so that, they will gain their knowledge but in a really fun way. As the result, it will stay in their memory forever and we can see the sweetest smile in the world. In conclusion, there is only one word that best to describe children’s world, it is happy and in no doubt we will give everything in this world to make it happened.

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You should be able to teach your kids on how to save money. They should be able to understand the concept of money and investment as early as childhood. This will prepare them to learn money management, as they grow old.

Here are some tips on how you can teach your children how to save money:

1. Your children should be educated of the meaning of money. Once your children have learned how to count, that is the perfect time for you teach them the real meaning of money. You should be consistent and explain to them in simple ways and do this frequently so that they may be able to remember what you taught them.

2. Always explain to them the value of saving money. Make them understand its importance and how it will impact their life. It is important that you entertain questions from them about money and you should be able to answer them right away.

3. When giving them their allowances. You need to give them their allowances in denominations. Then you can encourage them that they should keep a certain bill for the future. You can motivate them to do this by telling them that the money can be saved and they can buy new pair of shoes or the toys they want once they are able to save.

4. You can also teach them to work for money. You can start this at your own home. You can pay them fifty cents to one dollar every time they clean their rooms, do the dishes or feed their pets. This concept of earning little money will make them think that money is something they have worked for and should be spent wisely.

5. You can teach them to save money by giving them piggy banks where they can put coins and wait until they get full. You can also open bank accounts for them and let them deposit money from their allowance. You should always show them how much they have earned to keep them motivated.

Money and saving is not something that is learned by children in one sitting. You should be patient in teaching them and relating the value of money in all of their activities. Children will learn this easily if you are patient and consistent in guiding them and encouraging them in this endeavor.

You’ll need:
• templates
• thick white cardboard
• pencil
• ruler
• scissors
• craft knife
• contrasting fabrics
• glue stick
• stapler

1. You’ll need two for the house base. Place them on the cardboard, trace around and cut out.

2. With the craft knife, cut out a window (get a grown-up to help), from each house base section, only cutting down the middle and across the top and bottom. Fold flaps back so they look like shutters. Staple sections together at one end.

3. Place fabric right side down. Lay house base on top. Trace around with a 5cm overhang. Cut out. Mark where windows are on fabric and cut out.

4. Glue the fabric to the house base and smooth out. Glue contrasting fabric to shutters. Roll into a cylinder shape and secure with staples.

5. Place roof on contrasting fabric, trace around with a 5cm overhang and cut out. Glue fabric to roof and smooth out. Cut in from the outside edge to the centre, fold into a cone shape and secure with staples.

You’ll need:
• small plastic container
• potting mix
• seeds

1. Make a few holes in the bottom of the container (for the water to drain out) and fill it with potting mix.

2. Write your initials in the potting mix with your finger. Sprinkle the seeds in each letter indent and cover with soil.

3. Water well and put the container on a saucer (to catch the water) in a warm, dry spot. Remember to keep the soil moist.

You’ll need:
• string
• embroidery needle
• mix of dried fruit (we used dried apple, pawpaw, craisins, apricots and sultanas).

1. Thread the string through the needle.

2. Push the needle through each piece of dried fruit until you reach the end of the string.

3. Hang it from a branch of a tree in your garden.

You’ll need:
• pencil
• cardboard
• scissors
• tissue paper or crepe paper
• glue stick

1. Draw some flower shapes on the cardboard and cut out.

2. Tear off small pieces of tissue paper or crepe paper and crush them into ball shapes.

3. Glue the paper balls onto the flower cut-outs until they’re covered.

4. Hang them on your wall, cupboard, or window.

1. Even if a child is keen to go to school and copes well in groups of other kids and social situations, there’s no guarantee he is actually ready for the experience.

2. Keeping in close touch with a child’s progress and happiness is the best way to judge whether she is at the right level.

3. It’s all about our kids – not about when we started school (or wished we had) or when friends, older brothers or sisters did.

4. Sometimes you have to make hard decision in the short term for your child’s benefit in the long term.